So many singles DM’d me on my last video post about being a Christian our lives aren’t boring. Many asked me to give some suggestions or ideas on what you can do being a single Christian, whether it’s with friends or just doing something solo. So I decided to blog about this topic.
Let me say this first, you must know your interest and hobbies on what YOU enjoy because what may be fun to me may not be fun to you. I will be honest, I’m a simple girl and it doesn’t take a whole lot for me. But you on the other hand maybe different. However, let me say this, being a Christian your life doesn’t have to be boring and I want you to stop believing this myth and those close minded or should I say “super saints” that tells you, you can’t do this or that because you’re going to hell. Live your life baby, life is too short and God has blessed us with it and He wants us to enjoy it. Now when I say live your life I’m not talking about doing some craziness that you know will bring conviction like turning up in Magic City and throwing some ones or turning up in a night club. Naw! Not that kind of fun LOL. There are some things you can do that is wholesome and fun. I’m not sure where everyone is at, I know it’s hard when you live in a small town, you don’t have that many options. Therefore you may have to travel to your nearest big city. But to those who live in big cities like Atlanta we have more options. So here goes!
With me I love anything that involves Food & Music. I will go to a nice lounge/restaurant that plays live music, or some good old R&B.
Wine tasting is another option if you drink wine.
Dinner at an upscale restaurant.
Movies or Karaoke bar.
Sips & Strokes where you do the painting.
Game night with friends.
Dave & Busters or Main Event.
Become a foodie where you just go try different restaurants to explore different cultures.
Attend different events local in the area. Christian play dates to get to know other Christians in the area (not to date but to gain friendship).
Comedy Shows (there are Christian comedians out here).
Join a safe meet up group to meet new people.
When football season starts or now basketball season go to a nice bar and sit at the bar and eat and have some conversations about sports. Singles we can’t be close minded, there is nothing wrong with conversing.
Explore a Museum.
Well I hope this helps and just to name a few things you can do. I’m sure it’s much more but YOU have to discover what YOU enjoy if it’s just sitting at home every weekend watching others have fun while you’re in the house🤷🏽♀️
I hope in this season you will get out and enjoy and EMBRACE your singleness. You should keep yourself so busy that you don’t have time to date because you’re busy enjoying life. Life is a precious gift by God. I want you to enjoy every inch of singleness so when you do marry you won’t have any regrets wishing you were still single or had the opportunity to explore this or that while single.
Keep Embracing xoxo